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In just two days, Thanksgiving will be here, one of my favorite holidays. No presents, no major decorating, just food - good food, turkey and gravy, mashed potatoes and pies, and lots of all of it. When my late husband and were younger and living in our beautiful 1936 Tudor house, we had as many as 40 guests every Thanksgiving! Scott loved to cook, and we would make two 25 pound fresh turkeys with lots of stuffing, mountains of fluffy white mashed potatoes, homemade gravy, fresh cranberry sauce, sweet potatoes, and all the other accoutrements. We started preparations early in the week, and by the time Thanksgiving Day came, we were exhausted! Our house was packed with people - we had some friends and family who came for hors d'oeuvres, some who came just for dessert, some who showed up for after-dinner drinks, and a throng of friends and family who stayed for the whole day. It was so much work, but there was so much love, so it was worth every minute of buying and prep time.
Scott and I always invited folks we knew who had no family. Our late friends Leo and Marie, our friend Cam, and so many others. Most of those folks who sat at our table all those years are gone now, yet the pleasant memories of those golden Thanksgiving days linger on and I bask in their glow every November.
I am making new memories now - with my brother, George, and his lovely wife Joan, and their 6 sons and their wives and so many beautiful children. It is a different kind of Thanksgiving, but just as rich and fun as the old days. Do I wish for the old days? Of course! But they can no longer be, so I am embracing the new days.
When Scott first died, I was so sad that I could not even recognize what I had. Grief colored everything black or gray. Through the years, I have learned to concentrate on being grateful for all that I had then, and all that I have now, and the burden of my loss is lighter to carry.
I hope that you will find it in your heart to be thankful EVERY day, not just Thanksgiving Day. I find that practicing gratitude each morning makes my day start better, and a positive attitude makes for a positive day.
Happy Thanksgiving, dear readers, and may many blessings come to you.
"Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough." Oprah Winfrey
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