Thursday, January 23, 2020

"Empathy is seeing with the eyes of another . . ." Alfred Adler



During the 35 years that I taught at North Allegheny Intermediate High School, a good friend was a health teacher, with a wonderful lesson about empathy.  Our building was just two grades - 9 and 10 - and Health was required for one semester in 9th grade.  If you have taught high school, you know that 9th graders are very impetuous and even more impatient, but Debbie Stackrow taught the kids about being patient with the elderly, which in Pittsburgh, PA, is the largest population in our demographic.  She had a variety of activities for this lesson, but I am focusing on just one. 

As I recall, the kids had to wear glasses with some masking tape on the lenses and just a little window to see through (mimicking cataracts and macular degeneration); their fingers were taped together to promote immobility (arthritis); and I think some had to use a walker or cane, with hard kernels of corn in their shoes (joint pain/arthritis.).  The students were asked to pretend "pay" a pretend "cashier" from a small change purse while wearing the glasses and using the taped fingers and holding the cane, which took much more time than they expected, and the whole thing was as frustrating for the payee as it was for the payer.  Suddenly, the students in the classroom FELT what is was like to have those problems that strap the elderly population, and it was a true moment of awakening for everyone.

After the activity, the students discussed their frustration of having the faux handicaps of old age, as well as the manner in which they (the students) reacted to older people when they encountered them in everyday life.  Debbie gave her classes so much to think about from that lesson. Oh, the power of a good teacher!

I sort of had to laugh at myself this week as I thought about my school days teaching and Debbie's lesson.  I have been having terrible knee pain for 6 months, which has now become even worse.  In fact, walking is such a difficulty,  I found myself leaning on a cane to walk into the doctor's office, and using a walker while wearing a splint on the way out.  Suddenly, I had young people in my path who "made way" for my temporary walker.  They were perfectly appropriate, but Debbie's lesson immediately came to mind, as today was my first time as a challenged older adult.  I never thought I would be old enough to need a cane or a walker!

My mother taught my brothers and me to honor our elders and to help them as best we could. I have always practiced the Golden Rule and empathy, and today I was the receiver of the that empathy from others.   

Despite the political climate in America, I continue to believe that people are good at heart.  

I am now on an anti-inflammatory medication and my knee is doing a little better.  I have an MRI on Monday, and I have ditched the cane, but what a lesson to remember.  Empathy is so important - and our world would be so much better if everyone practiced empathy. 



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