Whether it is Father's Day or any other day, I often think about my dad, who was a study in contrasts. He had such a dry sense of humor, that sometimes people were not sure if he was really joking, yet his laugh was actually larger than he was! A petite man of 5'7" and weighing only 110 pounds, he acquired the nickname of "Herk" for "Hercules" because of his wiry strength. The gruffness he showed my brothers regarding their incorrectly done chores was the opposite of the tenderness shown to me, his "little girl," when I needed advice.
Dad had a sterling sense of fair play and honesty. When life was not always fair to us as children, Dad would remind us that life wasn't fair, but people should be fair. Lying was not acceptable in our house, for any reason, and if we made a mistake, we told the truth and accepted the consequences, because Dad said that was the only right thing to do.
Dad worked 40+ hours per week at Allegheny Ludlum Steel, on the swing shift of 8-4, 4-12, and 12-8 for almost 44 years. I know he wanted for a better life for his three children, so he never complained about his job. When he finally retired, I asked, "Dad, how could you work 44 years on the swing shift?" His answer was simple: "Honey, I liked my job and I liked the people I worked with. It really only seemed like about 10 years." Many years later, I would understand his answer on my own personal level. When I retired from 37 years of teaching English and Theater, friends marveled at my long career, asking, "How could you teach 10th grade for 37 years???" I gave my dad's answer without realizing it at the time: "I really liked my job, and I enjoyed my colleagues and students. Those 37 years really only seemed like about 10 years."
I had become my father, and I that made me happy.
As I get older, I reflect upon the lessons of my parents, and I am so grateful for the values they bequeathed to my brothers and to me: have a strong work ethic, be reliable and responsible, do your best every day, say only nice things to others, be courteous, and remember that the world owes you nothing, so be grateful for what you earn and what you receive. These core values have dictated both my brothers' and my many successes in life.
Thanks, Dad, for all you taught me. I love you and miss you.
Happy Father'sDay to all the dads out there!
As always, I welcome your comments and suggestions.
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