Sunday, September 25, 2016
"Empathy feels connection; sympathy drives disconnection." Dr. Brené Brown
I found a terrific video by Dr. Brené Brown on YouTube about the difference between sympathy and empathy, and I have probably watched it 10 times,. I have Tweeted it, posted it on LinkedIn, as well as Facebook, Google + , and Tumblr. If you have not seen it, here is the link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Evwgu369Jw
As you know, I was a teacher for 37 years, and hundreds of occasions called for an intervention between students on my part, or for presenting strategies for solving differences between students or groups. I wish I would have had this video to show, because when a person truly understands that empathy is actually "putting yourself in the shoes of another", suddenly the new perspectives turn into understanding. When a person actually feels and understands empathy, there is no room for bullying, judgments, and put-downs.
This video is simple enough for children to understand, yet sophisticated enough for high school and college students to appreciate. The message is direct, engaging, humorous, and touching. Many friends "liked" my share on Facebook and Twitter, and all comments about this wonderful video were so positive. I urge my global colleagues in education to use this video as a teaching tool in the classroom.
I believe that when we teach empathy, students become better, both as individuals and as participants in society. So many issues divide our country, from race to economics to neighborhoods and more, and teachers need to do more to help students understand, tolerate, and accept those differences in a better way. This video provides great opportunity for discussion, as well as for use as a reference tool in the classroom. Students will "get" this message in this video, a message that each of us needs. I hope that all school environments will improve when students learn about empathy.
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