I taught at North Allegheny Intermediate High School for 35 years. Return readers to my blog know that I loved ALL of my jobs at school: teaching English and Theater, coaching golf, directing the musicals and the talent shows, working with student council, and more. The NA students were wonderful, as was the district, and I enjoyed a marvelous career. Something happened this past week that made me think of my teaching career even more than I normally do. A former NA student started a Facebook page for NA graduates, and a former student added me to the group. I read with interest what my former students had posted and how they were doing, whom they had married, and where they were living and working. A few days ago, I posted remarks about the wonderful students from my past, and how much I enjoyed my job at NA. I mentioned my husband's passing, as well as my new career as a writer and speaker. The response I received from my former students was overwhelming! I am both humbled and honored to be remembered.
Students from years ago said they have wanted to tell me "thank you" for believing in them; some remembered special moments from the musical and talent shows; many remembered their "favorite book" TO KILL A MOCKINGBIRD from my class; some recalled a special poem or assignment; one recalled a poignant (true) story I told about a former student, and she said "if you ever wondered if we were listening, we were." One young man told me I was the one who changed his life . . . he was a stutterer and I cast him as an emcee for the talent show. he shared with me that his self-confidence soared because of that role, and he still enjoys public speaking.
I loved sowing the seeds of knowledge for these students, and I must confess that it never occurred to me that I would ever reap such enormous rewards.
My heart is bursting with gratefulness that my former students are happy and successful and enjoying their lives- and that they, too, still think about me from time to time, just as I think about them.
You see, teaching is about relationships, not just the exchange of knowledge and information. I always enjoyed knowing my students as people, not just as my pupils. A solid relationship built on mutual respect and caring knows no time limit, as time does not diminish respect and caring. I am touched and moved beyond words.
Teacher readers, I am posting this story for all of you. Every teacher makes a difference every day to his/her students. Even though teachers rarely have a glimpse of that finished product, I say confidently that you should stand proud. You helped to shape a child's life in a positive manner, and your influence will never end. The accolades I enjoyed this week are ones that I share with all teachers - I was just the lucky one to receive them! The world is a better place because YOU are in the classroom.
I am so thankful that I chose to become a teacher. I hope all of my teacher-reader-friends feel the same!
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I LOVE writing. And I love writing children's books- my newest passion. Although it will be a ton of work, I am looking forward to selling my books. Since I was a secondary teacher, I know that I have much to learn about elementary students, and I will have to follow my own advice and be my genuine self. However, I also know that I am passionate about helping kids who have to wear glasses, and that GRADY GETS GLASSES sends a positive message. I am willing to work hard and do all the things that also made me a successful teacher for 37 years. I remain inspired!
Elementary teachers in Western Pennsylvania and beyond - I am willing to come into your classroom in person or as a virtual field trip through a group called Field Trip Zoom. Check them out! http://www.fieldtripzoom.com/
Teacher friends- let me know if you want me to read GRADY GETS GLASSES at your school. I am willing to come in to discuss the creative writing process, why writing is important, and personal fulfillment through writing, along with reading my book. I would appreciate the exposure, and I would make signed copies available for purchase in your classrooms following the reading. Please email me at firstname.lastname@example.org . The website www.gradygetsglasses.com IS UP AND RUNNING!!!. Signed copies ARE available! Grady plush toys are ordered!
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