I find my inspiration for writing these weekly posts in everyday living, stories of the past, the media, and from friends. I like sharing a truth or experience from my own life, or sometimes, teaching a lesson. I have written many times in the past about both kindness and empathy, and I think I found exactly the right story to puts those two qualities in perfect sync.
Perhaps you have seen the story on the news about the 8 year old girl from Schenectady, NY, named Sa'fyre Terry who lost her entire family in a fire, and she herself, was badly burned and disfigured from the fire. She even lost a hand and a foot to infections from her numerous reconstructive surgeries; and she recently had a tracheal tube removed so that she can speak again. Sa'fyre lives with her aunt, who has become her guardian. The aunt bought a Christmas card tree for her at a thrift store, and Sa'fyre asked if, perhaps, she might receive enough cards to fill the tree if her aunt posted her picture and her special wish for Christmas cards on Facebook.
The response to Sa'fyre's request has been nothing short of earth-shattering! Albany News 10 reported that a two-ton tractor trailer truck delivered over 18,000 cards and letters and 400 packages to the little girl - her mail for one day! As I read through the various reports on Sa'fyre, I found that many classroom teachers made writing letters and cards to the young burn victim into a class project. I applaud those teachers, as I do believe that empathy can and must be taught. In our computer-driven and fast-paced world, it is important for children (and adults) to stay connected to other human beings, and this little girl provided the impetus for teachers to share some important lessons. Classroom teachers made lesson plans for their students by sharing Sa'fyre's story; helping the students to feel her pain and sense of aloneness (her father died while attempting to save her, and all of her siblings died in the fire); and further stirring students' feelings of empathy by presenting and discussing the idea of losing all of one's family members and possessions. Additionally, these teachers taught the lesson of kindness, as they had their students reach out to young Sa'fyre through their sincere words and handmade cards, all with the purpose of comforting the little girl. If I were still in the classroom, I would have taken time out of class time to share these kinds of teachable moments. I hope the teachers also talked about the wonderful feeling that happens inside a person when reaching down to help someone up!
Sa'fyre has already received teddy bears, handmade jewelry, a tiara, stuffed animals, books, and more. I must confess that I was so taken with this story that I sent Sa'fyre a funny reindeer card along with a copy of my new book, GRADY GETS GLASSES. I hope the rhymes and the rabbit will lift her spirits- just like writing her a note and sending it to her lifted mine! Her address is Sa'fyre Terry P.O. Box 6126 Schenenctady, NY 12306
I am so happy to share this story of empathy, kindness, hope, and inspiration with you during this holiday season.
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